I think the unknown in my blog hates me and she/he 's saying that not all the girls in my class likes me.. lol! hahahaha.. craps... CrApS! but then again i'm quite happy.. =)
What life is all about..
What do you want most for your children?
For them to be successful?
To have good, well-paying jobs?
Or for them to be happy?
Perhaps it’s an inevitable consequence of our competitive, meritocratic society that some parents may initially feel that success and wealth are the things they most want their children to have.
However, it is very likely that if parents contemplate this matter further, they will eventually realize that success and wealth are useless unless their children are happy.
Art Berg has some thoughts on this sometimes elusive state of mind?
I believe that happiness evades many because they misconstrue the process and journey of finding it.
I have heard many people say that, “I’ll be happy when I get my new promotion.”
Or, “I’ll be happy when I lose that extra 20 pounds.”
And, “I’ll be happy when the kids go back to school.”
The list goes on and on.
You probably have a few of your own you could add if you wanted.
This thinking is dangerous because it presupposes that happiness is a “response” to having, being or doing something.
In life, we all experience stimulus and response.
Stimulus is when a dog barks at you and bares his teeth.
Response is when your heart beats faster, your palms get sweaty and you prepare to run.
Today, some people think that an expensive car is stimulus.
Happiness is a response.
A great paying job is stimulus.
Happiness is a response.
A loving relationship is stimulus.
Happiness is a response.
This belief leaves us thinking and feeling: “I’ll be happy when….”
It has been my finding that actually the opposite is true.
I believe that happiness is a stimulus and response is what life brings to those who are truly happy.
When we are happy, we tend to have more success in our work.
When we are happy, people want to be around us and enjoy loving relationships.
When we are happy, we more naturally take better care of our bodies and enjoy good health.
Happiness is NOT a response-rather, it is a stimulus.
Happiness is a conscious choice we make every day of our lives.
I have made only one simple rule for my own happiness: Every day above ground is a GOOD day.
Consequently, I tend to have a lot of good (and happy) days in succession.
So don’t wish for success, wealth, & fame for your children.
If they are happy, success and wealth will find them naturally.
If they don’t have happiness to begin with, then all is in vain.
Life is Beautiful…
If you Believe in it..
Have you seen my girl?
Haziq Is No Cheena
Always look on the bright side of life!
Always have an objective in mind.
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