Baggage

Find this quite meaningful….

True enough…

People tend to “carry” their unhappy experiences with them though those incidents may have happen quite some time ago…..let bygones be bygones…


Once upon a time, a big monk and a little monk were travelling together.

They came to the bank of a river, the bridge was damaged.

They had to wade across the river.

There was a pretty lady who was stuck at the damaged bridge and couldn’t cross the river.

The big monk offered to carry the pretty across the river on his back.

The lady accepted.

The little monk was shocked by the move of the big monk.

“How can big disciple brother carry a lady when we are supposed to avoid all intimacy with females,” thought the little monk.

But he kept quiet.

The big monk carried the lady across the river and the small monk followed unhappily.

When they crossed the river, the big monk let the lady down and they parted with her.

All along the way for several miles, the little monk was very unhappy with the act of the big monk.

He was making up all kinds of accusations about the big monk in his head.

This got him madder and madder.

But he still kept quiet.

And the big monk had no inclination to explain his situation.

Finally, at rest-point many hours later, the little monk could not stand it any further; he burst out angrily at the big monk.

“How can you claim yourself a devout monk, when you seize the first opportunity to touch a female, especially when she is very pretty.
All your teachings to me make you a big hypocrite.”

The big monk looked surprised and said, “I had put down the pretty lady at the river bank many hours ago, how come you are still carrying her along?”

This is a very old Chinese Zen story but it still reflects the thinking of many people today.

We encounter many unpleasant things in our life, they irritate us and they make us angry.

Sometimes, they cause us a lot of hurt, sometimes they cause us to be bitter or jealous.

But like the little monk, we are not willing to let them go away.

We keep on carrying the baggage of the “pretty lady” with us.

We let them keep on coming back to hurt us, make us angry, make us bitter and cause a lot of agony.

Why?

Simply because we are not willing to put down the baggage of the “pretty lady”.

We should just put down the pretty lady immediately after crossing the river, immediately after the unpleasant event is over.

This will immediately remove all our agonies.

There is no need to be further hurt by the unpleasant event after it is over.

It is just that simple.

Marble Story

There was this museum laid with beautiful marble tiles, with a huge marble statue displayed in the middle of the lobby.Many people came from all over the world just to admire this beautiful marble statue.

One night, the marble tiles started talking to the marble statue.

Marble tile: Marble statue, it’s just not fair, it’s just not fair! Why does everybody from all over the world come all the way here just to step on me while admiring you? Not fair!

Marble statue: My dear friend, marble tile. Do you still remember that we were actually from the same cave?

Marble tile: Yeah! That’s why I feel it is even more unfair. We were born from the same cave and yet we receive different treatment now. Not fair!”

Marble statue: Then, do you still remember the day when the designer tried to work on you, but you resisted the tools?

Marble tile: Yes, of course I remember. I hate that guy! How could he use those tools on me, it hurt so badly?

Marble statue: That’s right! He couldn’t work on you at all as you resisted being worked on.

Marble tile: So???

Marble statue: When he decided to give up on you and start working on me instead, I knew at once that I would be something different after his efforts. I did not resist his tools; instead I bore all the painful tools he used on me.

Marble tile: Mmmmmm…

Marble statue: My friend, there is a price to everything in life. Since you decided to give up half way, you can’t blame anybody who steps on you now.”


The moral of the story is:

The more hard knocks you go through in life, the more you’ll learn and put them to use in the future!!

Do not be discouraged by setbacks and failures.


Did Rocky Balboa give up? No he don't.



















Which do u prefer?

Eerie Bus

The story took place during the 7th month of the Chinese lunar calendar and revolved around a young lad named Sam.

Sam at that time was working as a general worker, in a small company located at Tuas.

During one particular working day, the whole of Sam’s company was requested to work OT in order to meet a deadline due tomorrow.

By the time everything was done, it was already past 1am and Sam was the last person left in the office.

He was left wondering whether there were still any bus services at this hour.

He decided to try his luck and quickly tidied up the office, locked up and rushed towards the bus stop.

The bus stop was situated by a small narrow road with dense forestation surrounding the area.

Sam waited for about 20 minutes and was about to make his way to the main road to catch a cab when a double deck bus appeared from nowhere.

He hesitantly waved it down, boarded the bus and the only person he saw on the same bus was a frail ghastly looking old woman.

The old woman was dressed in white samfoo and black pant, attire favoured by maids in those early days or “Ma Jie” as they were commonly known then.

Sam felt uneasy upon seeing her and was about to go up to the upper deck when a voice ranged out in Cantonese, “Young man, don’t go upstairs.Upstairs dangerous.” It was the old woman.

Her comment sent a chill through Sam’s bones and he figured that the upper deck might be “dirty”.

He decided to heed the old woman’s advice and grab a seat at the lower deck even though he felt uncomfortable by her presence.

It was an agonizing 20 minutes journey before Sam reached his bus stop.

He quickly alighted and turned to steal a quick glance at the old woman, who stared right back at him by the window.

Without further a do, Sam hastened his pace and was fortunate to reach home safely.

The next day, Sam was requested to work OT and ended up being the last person left in the office again.

It was already past midnight and Sam was contemplating whether to take a cab home but decided against it in the end as money was tight.

So he made his way to the bus stop again and after about 20 minutes, the same double deck bus appeared.

Sam boarded the bus and saw the same old woman again.

He decided to go to the upper deck again when the old woman called out to him, “Young man, don’t go upstairs.

Upstairs dangerous.” Even though, he heard it before, he still felt a certain fear inside him since it’s the 7th month.

To be on the safe side, he reluctantly took a seat at the lower deck again and reached home with no incidents.

The third day, Sam was asked to do OT again.

By now he was feeling dreaded and worried as he didn’t want to repeat the same process again.

But he obliged nevertheless since it’s his livelihood.

He was, you guessed it, the last person left in the office again.

He made the same journey to the bus stop, occasionally checking his back as he walked.

The double deck bus arrived, he boarded it and saw the same old woman again.

As he proceeded to go upstairs, the old woman warned him again, “Young man, don’t go upstairs. Upstairs dangerous.”

Sam was fed up with the old woman by now and decided to go upstairs even though he was feeling a bit scared.

He saw no one else when he reached the upper deck and slowly made his way to the back of the bus and sat down.
Sam’s heart began pounding away as he waited anxiously for something to happen.

After 30 minutes, with nothing happening, Sam went downstairs to confront the old woman and asked her why she kept saying it’s dangerous upstairs.

The old woman turned, stared at him and replied, “Young man, don’t go upstairs. Upstairs dangerous. Upstairs got no bus driver.”

Hahas.. Smile everyone!

The Small Tree

I hired a plumber to help me restore an old farmhouse.

He had just finished a rough first day on the job: a flat tire made him lose an hour of work, his electric drill quit and his ancient one ton truck refused to start.

While I drove him home, he sat in stony silence.

On arriving, he invited me in to meet his family.

As we walked toward the front door, he paused briefly at a small tree, touching the tips of the branches with both hands.

When opening the door he underwent an amazing transformation.

His tanned face was wreathed in smiles and he hugged his two small children and gave his wife a kiss.

Afterward he walked me to the car.

We passed the tree and my curiosity got the better of me.

I asked him about what I had seen him do earlier.

“Oh, that’s my trouble tree,” he replied.

“I know I can’t help having troubles on the job, but one thing’s for sure, those troubles don’t belong in the house with my wife and the children.

So I just hang them up on the tree every night when I come home and ask GOD To Take care of them.

Then in the morning I pick them up again.

Funny thing is,” he smiled,

“when I come out in the morning to pick ‘em up, there aren’t nearly as many as I remember hanging up the night before.”

You Too can do this, if you can't find any trees outside your homes, Try using those flowers, Small plants and all! Almost everyone has a small vase outside their home right?

Let GOD Carries you on his shoulders
GOD Bless, Have A Blessed Day!!!


Stretch ur hands and reach the branch. Let go those miseries and live life as happy as can be!

Some of my videos!

Floating card on broad Daylight! yeah!


heh! i was So damn nervous! but now, NOT Anymore! Afraid of needles NO more!

A Slice of Life (Appreciating Difficult People)…

There are plenty of self-help books and programmes teaching us how to deal with “difficult” people. Most of them explain why these people appear to make things hard for you and suggest ways of making these people more pliable.

However, have you ever thought about how these ostensible “saboteurs” could actually benefit you? Well, most of don’t think about how we can appreciate difficult people.

By painting them as the enemy, we are wasting time and energy thinking of ways to change them or get rid of them. But if we can adjust our perspective and think about how these people can be good for us, we can work synergistically to produce amazing results.

It’s tempting to write off “difficult” people as “jerks” but they can be great teachers and reminders for us. They often teach us important lessons about life and about ourselves.

They also remind us to be more patient and accepting, and they force us to live true to the principles many of us say are most important - kindness, love, acceptance, forgiveness, respect, and others. When we take the time to appreciate the “difficult” people around us, some amazing things happen.

First of all, we find that there are actually many things we do appreciate about them. (Remember, we always find what we look for). Second, we allow ourselves to be open to the lessons these people have to teach us.

Third, we let go of the unnecessary stress and frustration that comes along with constantly being irritated by another person. When we are willing to look for good stuff, even in these “difficult” people, we tap into the amazing power of appreciation.

Appreciation allows us to greatly increase our own personal success and fulfillment, and it dramatically improves the environment around us as well. Think of the three most “difficult” people in your life.

Write their names down on a piece of paper. Next to each name, write at least three things you appreciate about them.

For some, it may take a while, for others it will be much easier. You may find that once you start, there are lots of things you appreciate about them.

Next time you think about, talk about and/or interact with these people, see if you can put more of your attention on the things you appreciate about them (what you wrote on your list and more), and less attention on the things that you don’t like.












All conflict can be resolve without the need to throw fist at each other! =)

A friend

A Friend is someone we lean on,
When we are feeling weak.

A Friend is someone who help’s us,
Find what it is we seek.

A Friend is someone who looks out for you,
In all they say & do.

A Friend is someone you don’t have to
tell,
For they already knew.

A Friend is someone who would,
Go that extra mile.

A Friend is someone who show’s us,
A heart that does truly smile.

A Friend is someone who’ll stand by you,
And help you through your day.

A Friend is someone who’ll show you,
There is always a way.

A Friend is someone who’ll dry your
tears,
When you feel you have to cry

A Friend is someone who’ll pull you
through,
When the tide feels ever so high.

A Friend is someone who’ll be there,
Until the very end.

A Friend is someone who’ll show us,
How that broken heart they’ll mend.

A Friend is someone who give’s us,
Understanding, Joy & Grace.

Life is more Beautiful
Wih you as my Friend

You're already my friend,
even by reading this. =)

Think Positive ( be like me ) hehs =P

Once there was loving couple travelling in a bus in a mountainous area.

They wanted to get down at some place.

The couple disembarked the bus and it moved on.

As the bus moved on, a humongous rock fell on the bus from a mountain and crushed the bus to crumbs.

Everybody on board was killed.

The couple upon seeing that, said, “We wish we could be on that bus”

Why did they say that?


Think about it.. Wad might they say to themselve? THINK think THINK!!!

Once done, Scroll Down for the Answer!
























Answer !!!!

In case they were on the bus and had decided not to get down, the resulting time delay could have been avoided and the rock would have fallen after the bus had passed off….!!!

Think positive in life always and always look for opportunities when u can help others.. =)

The Law of the Seed

Take a look at an apple tree.

There might be five hundred apples on the tree, each with ten seeds.

That’s a lot of seeds! We might ask,

“Why would you need so many seeds to grow just a few more trees?”

Nature has something to teach us here. It’s telling us:

“Most seeds never grow.

So if you really want to make something happen, you had better try more than once

This might mean:

You’ll attend twenty interviews to get one job.

You’ll interview forty people to find one good employee.

You’ll talk to fifty people to sell one house, car, vacuum cleaner, insurance policy, idea.

And you might meet a hundred acquaintances to find one special friend.

When we understand the “Law of the Seed”,

We don’t get so disappointed.

We stop feeling like victims

Laws of nature are not things to take personally.

We just need to understand them - and work with them.

In a Nutshell

Successful people fail more often.

So they plant more seeds.

hehs

Wishing You Success … =D

New School Discipline…

Reportedly, a school teacher injured his back and had to wear a plaster cast around the upper part of his body.

It fit under his shirt and was not noticeable at all.

On the first day of the term, still with the cast under his shirt, he found himself assigned to the toughest students in school.

Walking confidently into the rowdy classroom, he opened the window as wide as possible and then busied himself with desk work.

When a strong breeze made his tie flap, he took the desk stapler and stapled the tie to his chest.

He had no trouble with discipline that term.

Potatoes

A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.

The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic bag containing a few potatoes.

Each potato will be given a name of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number of people he/she hates.

So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with the name of the people he/she hated.

Some had 2 potatoes; some 3 while some up to 5 potatoes.

The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.

Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes.

Besides, those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags.

After 1 week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.

The teacher asked: “How did you feel while carrying the potatoes with you for 1 week?”

The children let out their frustrations and started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.

Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.

The teacher said: “This is exactly the situation when you carry your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just 1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred in your heart for your lifetime???”

Moral of the story:

Throw away any hatred for anyone from your heart so that you will not carry sins for a lifetime.

Forgiving others is the best attitude to take!

So START forgiving them!

Even God forgive those sinful people and what about you?

New BlogSkin!

hey hey hey yo Guys out there!

ObServE MY NEW Skin!! wooots

(Kudos to -ZACK!-)

hahas! yeah.. thanx eh.. Okay! wootS!

U guys can use Internet Explorer, Mozilla Firefox or even Netscape!
Nothing can go wrong!

so thanx for visiting my blog! have a nice DAY!

My day

Yo guys.. haha.. It has been so long since i last talked bout myself and i'm going to update u guys! okay?! yeah!

Firtsly, U guys remember the ZenAurvana (creative earpiece which curently cost $139) i bought it few weeks ago, I WASHED IT IN THE WASHINE MACHINE!!!!! #$%$$#T$%^#*&@$%^@#$%^@$%^&!$%&#&*%*$%^*&%$&@#$^%#&&$

OMG! I was @#$%KING SHOCKED! but TO my relief, its CAN still work normally!! haha. what a miracle.. Thank god, even after all the spinning and stuff for 30 mins.. lols..

secondly, i was Posted to Temasek POly for my tertiary education! yeah! Business Process and System Engineering... Its in the engineering sch but more to business.. weird rite? but nvm! i hope my DAE appeal will be approve.. =) ( DAE=Direct Admission Exercise)

Thirdly, i've been handling Urine samples and Stool Samples almost everyday mans.. sigh.. 1 thing i hate about handling stool samples.. AT times it smells!! aiya!! shit shit shit shit!! haha..

yeah! Okay! i think Thats all for todaY! see u guys TMR! yeah! have fun!

Tarzan… horny horny.. =)

A team of scientists go to the Africa rainforest in search of Tarzan.

Eventually, they find him and remain with him in his jungle habitat for sometime in order to observe his lifestyle, do tests and ask him various questions.

One afternoon, the only female scientist in the group, is alone with Tarzan walking through the forest.

Curiosity gets the better of her and she asks, “How do you get on for . . .er . .,well . . you know sex?. . “

“Oh, “says Tarzan, “that’s no problem!. You see, I find a nice large tree with a hole in the trunk and so it with that.”

“So,” says the female scientist undoing her blouse, “You’ve never been with a real woman?”

“No” says Tarzan. Well, just to further the cause of science you understand, I’m willing to give you a chance.” She says taking off her skirt.

“All right” says Tarzan eagerly.

So she lies on the grass on her back completely naked.

Tarzan eyes her up and then walks 20 feet away from her into the jungle.

He turns around , running up to her and kicks her powerfully in her groin.

She screams in agony and rolls about on the floor, clutching her groin for some time.

Eventually she manages to say, “You B*stard! What did you do that for?”

“Well” says Tarzan “I had to make sure there weren’t any squirrels”

^^ haha..

Avoid the Top 10 Interview Mistakes

Hello guys! heres Some thing U guys should know..! Yeah!

For many, the interview is the single most stressful part of the job search process. Any number of things can go wrong, and a big part of being successful is avoiding simple mistakes. Here’s a top ten list of the most common interview mistakes:


1. Arriving late

Don’t give a weak first impression even before the start of the interview. Lateness shows lack of respect and poor time management skills. After scheduling the interview, find out the distance and directions to the physical location. Don't assume you "know how much time it takes". Being late to an interview adds stress…and interviewing is already stressful enough.


2. Under-dressing

Dress for success is a common phrase, but a lot of candidates do not take it seriously. Unless the company you are interviewing with instructs you otherwise, wear business professional clothing. Remember that everything - your appearance, your tone of voice, your conduct - contributes to the impression (positive or negative) that you make. Be presentable - wear a pressed shirt, a tie and polished shoes.


3. Not being prepared

This interview could be a significant milestone in your career. Re-read the relevant version of your CV and the job advert, just before the interview. You'd be surprised how many people can't remember what they wrote on their CV.

Also, be familiar with the job description so you can draw on your experiences, talents, strengths and abilities to connect with the company needs. Highlight how you're suited to that particular job.

Not to forget, make sure you've brought with you everything you were asked for. This include all of your essential educational certificates as well as personal portfolio (if any).


4. Failure to research the company

As a general rule, the more famous the brand, the more they will expect you to have done your homework. Researching the company shows you're serious about the job.

Do your homework before the interview; f ind out about the company’s past, vision, competitors, achievements, numbers, etc. Some companies even have their candidate expectations somewhere on their website.

Study all these information in detail. Nothing communicates disinterest like a candidate who hasn't bothered to do pre-interview research. On the flip side, the quickest way to a good impression is to demonstrate your interest with a few well thought out questions that reflect your knowledge of the organisation.


5. Lying ( lols! )

Be yourself and be honest! Don't pretend to understand a question or train of thought if you don't. The interviewer will pick up on this. If you don't know an answer, say so. Relax and be yourself.


6. Criticising your past boss or coworkers

The fastest way to talk yourself out of a new job is to say negative things. You should never talk negatively about your current position, the industry, people that you’ve work with and previous nightmare dilemmas. Interviewers are interested more in how you overcome these challenges. Anything negative you say about any topic will reflect negatively on you. If there is something you need to express that is negative, say it in positive way.


7. Lack of confidence and enthusiasm

Lack of confidence can be a big turn off. If you appear too nervous, the interviewer will think that you're not confident enough to do the job. If you are serious abour getting the job, you’ll need to sell yourself as a representative of the company. Show yourself in a way they would feel proud of working with.

Make the employer feel that you are excited and interested in the job opportunity rather than just coming to the interview to see what's out there.

Maintain eye contact, greet the interviewer with a smile and a firm handshake (not too weak, not too strong), and show common courtesy. Don't be afraid to display your passion for the job/industry and to show confidence.


8. Not listening

You must read the interviewer’s gestures and tones and respond accordingly. Focus on the question that is being asked and don't try to anticipate the next one. It's OK to pause and collect your thoughts before answering a question. Give a targeted response to what the interviewer has asked. Be clear, concise and to the point. Don’t expand in endless explanations.


9. Not asking meaningful questions

You don't have to talk at all times in the interview. It is not only okay, but also essential to ask the interviewer some questions. Have at least three or four intelligent questions to ask him or her. Interviews are an exchange of information, and not coming in with questions shows that you did not prepare for the whole interview.


10. Not following up after the interview

Calling or sending a note after the interview is your way of showing your appreciation. It is a direct way of telling the company that you are truly motivated and want this job.

weird..??

There was this case in this hospital’s Intensive Care ward where patients always died in the same bed and on Friday mornings regardless of their age, gender, medical history or medical conditions.

This puzzled the doctors and some even thought that it had to do with the supernatural.
Why the death at that same bed on Fridays?

So the doctors decide to go down to that particular ward to investigate the cause of the incidents…

Come Friday morning, everyone at the hospital ward nervously waited for the terrible phenomenon to occur again.

The new unknowing patient laid there…

Some doctors holding wooden crosses, prayer books and other holy objects to ward off evils.

Waiting….the patient was resting still. Then 8am… 8:30am…

Just before the ‘cursed’ time….

The door to the ward swung open….
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Then Ah Soh, the part-time Friday cleaner, comes in and unplugs the life support system so that she can use the vacuum cleaner.

How mobile phones can assist in an emergency…

We all carry our mobile phones with hundreds of names/numbers stored in its memory but yet nobody, other than ourselves, know which of these numbers belong to our near and dear ones?

In other words there is no indication as to whom to contact in case of an emergency.

For this reason, we must have one or more telephone numbers stored under the name ICE (In case of Emergency) in our mobile phones.

All you need to do is assign the acronym “ICE” (meaning In Case of Emergency) to the number of contact person or persons who should be contacted during an emergency involving yourself.

This idea was thought up by paramedics who found that when they went to the scenes of accidents, there were always mobile phones with patients, but they didn’t know which number to call.

They therefore thought that it would be a good idea if there was a nationally recognized name for this purpose.

Following a disaster in London , the East Anglican Ambulance Service has launched a national “In case of Emergency (ICE)”campaign.

In an emergency situation, Emergency Service personnel and hospital staff would then be able to quickly contact your next of kin, by simply dialing the number stored as “ICE”.

Please forward this as widely as possible. It won’t take too many “forwards” before everybody will know about this.

It really could save lives, or put loved ones’ minds at rest.

For more than one contact name simply enter ICE1, ICE2 and ICE3 etc.

Crack your brainezZ!!! =S

Three men ( strangers to each other) were seeking refuge from a worsening storm on one dark & stormy night. They race into a small hotel at the same time. The clerk tells the three men that only one room is left. A $30 room. The men agree to share the room. Each man hands the clerk $10.


Minutes after going into the room, there's a knock on the door. It's the bellboy who says, " The desk clerk made a terrible mistake. The room is only $25." The bellboy then placed five $1 bills on a table.


Each man picked up a dollar. The remaining $2 was given to the bellboy as a tip.


The next day, one of the men told the story to his wife. "I originally paid $10, but i got back $1. So i paid $9 and contributed one-third of the $2 tip." he said.


" Wait a minute." she said. " three times the $9 you each paid is $27. And the $2 tip the bellboy got makes it a total of $29. What happened to the other $1? "

( Kudos to Xvan =P )

haha.. i actually know how it works! hahas..

taggies! ( i got a 50% increase in the number of tagS!! haha.. thanx guys!

ELA: omg im touched by the latest entry.
haziq:hahas.. aww.. thanx to haziq.. yeah!

dalinah.: with your song and the lastest entry on tat love story, it made me teared sey. gosh.
haziq: Awws.. Good.. Lets us be aware of our love life.. sMiLe!

fith: i still liked your post on march 2.. lol!
haziq: Lols.. thanx.. and no comments~!

arifin: wah..that is true haziq! haha. cey, haziq da tukar stream;jiwang. =P
haziq: hahas.. lols.. once in a while, why not?

justin:fith told me you were writing about love. deep facade. Zhey~!
haziq: lols.. good not? good?? And its not from naruto.. Some other animes..

who wants to noe??: Lol...lagu naruto..
haziq: lols.. nope.. its from another anime.. hmms.. maybe i got it from hmms, I forgot! hahas! ( lols to fitri )

Addey: I agree with you.Its not only for that special 'boyfriend/girlfriend' whom you love would you think will increase your stress level.Or sometimes maybe because you are too understanding to that someone you really love that will cause you problems because they take advantage of yourself.love isnt for someone selfish and ego.love is for those who understands what it really means. But to me,love sucks when the other party think that its okay to hurt you.
haziq: yeahs.. i feel the same way too.. And its not our time yet.. so be single rules lorh! =)

sitiradhiyah: wah! haziq is being so emo in this kind of things.. yeah, but to me it's about loving the person in no matter what without asking anything back in return. and if u really love them, u are willing to do anything or sacrifice anything for the person u love even if it gives u nothing back in return. like the uncle in this case! i bet everyone's looking forward to this kind of love but it's really up to u. make it, or break it
haziq: yeah.. u can say that again.. lols.. i just corected ur "thsi" to "this"... LOLS! okay.. weird mah.. hah!

anonymous: which would you rather do? to love or be loved?
haziq: to be loved! haha.. u noe wad i meant..~

what LovE means...

It was a busy morning, approximately 0830hrs, when an elderly gentleman, in his 80’s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.He stated that he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 0900hrs.

I saw him looking at his watch & decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.

On exam it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures & redressed his wound.

While taking care of his wound, we began to engage in conversation.

I asked him if he had an important appointment that morning, as he was in such a hurry.
The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.

I then inquired as to her health.He told me that she had been there for a while & that she was a victim of Alzheimer Disease.As we talked, & I finished dressing his wound, I asked if she would be worried if he was a bit late.

He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.

I was surprised, and asked him.

“And you still go every morning, even though she doesn’t know who you are?”He smiled as he patted my hand & said.“She doesn’t know me, but I still know who she is.”


( Kudos to aLi for the story )


Note :

That is the kind of LoVe I want in my life…

True LoVe is neither physical, nor romantic…

True LoVe is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be & will not be…

The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything… They just make the best of everything that comes along their way…

Life is what we make it, always has been, always will be…

Happiness doesn’t depend on what you have but what you satisfy & contented with…

Try looking at the simple side of life, don’t make life around you so complicated…

It’s how you make others happy rather than how you want others to make you happy…

I am still learning…

I wish I could find likewise in my soul mate…

These is what i call True love..





Love at our age:
(note: Love at our age is childish)

To some people, love may be a burden and they might not want to take that chance.. But the thing is, it takes alot of commitment from both parties..Even if both were to pull through after some time, it won't stop there..Love is Selfish, you only want ur Girlfriend/Boyfriend to be ur own right?What if they were to make friends with other girls or guys?This can lead to misunderstandings, arguements and even fights..Love can increase ur stress level and sometimes, lose control of yourself..It cant bloom all the times as in , there's always the ups and down..That is why, i do not encourage love at our age as we are not ready to fully understand what love really means..

Love Yourself for the moment.. =P

Love? what does love really meanS?

Love.
What does love really means?
Love in the sense of having a special feeling towards someone?
Or is there something else about love that we aren’t aware of?
How does love affects us?
What’s the different between family’s love and partner’s love?

Love, a burden?

Love, addictive?

Are we too young to understand Love?

Do you understand love?Love, selfish?

Love, brings about stress?

Love, a bad thing?

Love, bring about dispute?

Love, bad for our health?

Love, something wonderful?



So think about it..

- Letters From Iwo Jima -

"The black sands of Iwo Jima are stained with the blood of the 20,000
Japanese soldiers who perished, but their sacrifaces, their struggles, their courage and
their compassion live on in the letters they sent home..."

- Letters From Iwo Jima

Letters from Iwo Jima is a gripping and haunting story. Don't get me wrong, I'm definitely not one to glorify war, but after two and a half hours of the show, I saw another side of the world that I wasn't able to and failed to see. Ignorance apart, most youths(myself included) in developed countries of today fail to appreciate life because we are in perpetuum, so sheltered from the harsh realities of life. Yet, this reason is not enough to justify our attitude. It is not my intention to sound hubristic, but our forefathers have fought hard, shed blood, and crucified in hope of achieving better lives for us, and yet we treat the lives they've struggled to give us with such indifference. Are we becoming less empathetic? I'm afraid so.

It is about time we opened our eyes to human frailty.

Awareness is what i have been searching for all this time. Whether its about life, studies or even love. If its possible, i want to be aware of Everything in this very world but the saddest thing of all, we need to be patient. Awareness do not just come in a blink of an eye. We need to explore life itself. What i am doing now seem pathetic but its a good start. Self-help book at times create a sense of awareness. (Dont literally learn tips from the movie, sch for scoundrels. They are Not even true )

*kuDos to hafith for this INSIGHT. (lols~!)

Always look on the bright side of life!
Always have an objective in mind.
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